Apr 28, 2021On OwnershipWhen you start an essay with this title, it’s pretty problematically open. I recognize that. We could be talking about anything from the history of slavery on down to “One Art” by Elizabeth Bishop. And perhaps that’s the problem with ownership, at least the way we Americans tend to conceive…Gender7 min read
Apr 3, 2021The Day ErasedThis is thy hour O Soul, thy free flight into the wordless, Away from books, away from art, the day erased, the lesson done, Thee fully forth emerging, silent, gazing, pondering the themes thou lovest best. Night, sleep, death and the stars. — Walt Whitman, “A Clear Midnight” I’ve pulled…Dementia6 min read
Jun 6, 2019Little Murders, MeI won’t be so salacious as to start this essay with clickbait like “I am a murderer.” But it’s true that I will be responsible in some way for the death of my own body. I’m not talking about suicide. But having two auto-immune disorders (Multiple Sclerosis, Juvenile Diabetes) means my own body attacks and fights itself, very likely to the debility, if not to the death. Of course, I’m not unique in this way; most of us in the first world will die because…Disability7 min read
Mar 29, 2019On Losing“…how common illness is, how tremendous the spiritual change that it brings, how astonishing, when the lights of health go down, the undiscovered countries that are then disclosed, what wastes and deserts of the soul…” This line from Virginia Woolf’s 1926 essay “On Being Ill” has stuck with me for…Dementia5 min read
Jan 28, 2019Big Dipper: An Interview with the “Gay Bear Rapper”Big Dipper’s music is queer. Not just queer. It’s also clever. And ironic, musically smart, and pretty liberating. But, still, it’s really queer. More specifically, it’s fun, smart pop-rap that sexualizes bearish men instead of naked girls. It’s subtly critical of masculinity and mainstream sexuality and not-so-subtly celebratory of gay…LGBTQ4 min read
Jan 28, 2019Casting Pearls: An Interview with Author/Artist Sam KaldaI have something to admit. Sam Kalda, my interviewee today, is someone whose wedding I attended. But he’s also an artist and a writer whom I admire deeply; his first book, which he both wrote and illustrated, is called Of Cats and Men, and it’s a collection of quirky, brief…Art7 min read
Jan 26, 2019Why I’m Gone“We can disagree and still like each other.” That is what Trump Supporter, a younger relative of mine, wrote to me after telling me that (1) NY had recently passed a law allowing women to abort fully-grown “children” and (2) CNN, the NY Times, the Washington Post and the AP…Politics4 min read
Nov 19, 2018Loving the World: An Interview with Miguel GutierrezMiguel Gutierrez is a verb. He dances and choreographs, he’s the lead singer and driving force of the band Sadonna, writes and publishes and performs poetry, makes performance art, practices Feldenkrais (look it up if you don’t know it, because it will change your life) and teaches both Feldenkrais and…Dance6 min read